tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post4651583656232559819..comments2024-03-06T12:52:47.385-05:00Comments on Circus Tent - הירשל ציג'ס בלאג: There is no shidduch crisis!Hirshel Tzig - הירשל ציגhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08911009966581004937noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-91337295530158263212010-06-01T04:08:39.161-04:002010-06-01T04:08:39.161-04:00We had the new Besht but rejected him.
His name w...We had the new Besht but rejected him.<br /><br />His name was Shlomo Carlebach z"l.<br />---<br />LOL.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-5883687819844116972010-05-30T16:18:56.014-04:002010-05-30T16:18:56.014-04:00Of course Bray, you are right. That said, if the ...Of course Bray, you are right. That said, if the kiruv rabbis are unable to handle shiduchim, it seems to me thay should find shadchans who can. Otherwise, a few years from the ba'al tshuva's initial encounter with the kiruv rabbi, you are going to be dealing with a lot of buyer's remorse. That's been my experience, anyway, and the experience of many (dare I say most?)of my friends.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-25554429891270460482010-05-28T14:01:11.093-04:002010-05-28T14:01:11.093-04:00Duddy,
Kish mich 20 muhl in der rechter und 10 in...Duddy,<br /><br />Kish mich 20 muhl in der rechter und 10 in der linker- rechter is cheishiver :)<br /><br />Nether- i know enough garbage from Lakewood itself.<br /><br />Mendel,<br /> You are right, but then do not make baal tshuves!!!!You guys can not make kehilos mamzerim- lo sischaten bom...<br /><br />I can not blame anybody however...:)russian chusidnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-90639931368464962302010-05-28T12:55:07.606-04:002010-05-28T12:55:07.606-04:00Dudy
I don't see where Russia Chusid deserved ...Dudy<br />I don't see where Russia Chusid deserved such a aggressive responseAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-65242915839204533752010-05-28T12:07:59.555-04:002010-05-28T12:07:59.555-04:00בנוגע צו די אזוי גערופענע גזע אין ליובאוויטש צי זי...בנוגע צו די אזוי גערופענע גזע אין ליובאוויטש צי זיי טוען שידוכים מיט בע"ת וכיו"ב.<br />דער ענטפער איז יש ויש. מען דארף אויך פארשטיין אז דער וועלטאנשאונג Weltanschauung (ווי שרייבט מען דאס?) פון א בע"ת מיט איינער וואס איז אויפגעוואקסן פרום איז גאנץ אנדערש. איך שטאם פון גזע און אין מיין משפחה איז דא די וואס האבן חתונה געהאט מיט בע"ת, ב"ה פרייליכערהייט, אבער עס קאן מאכן שוועריקייטן. וכידוע וואס דארף מען לייגן א געזונטע קאפ אין א קראנקע בעט. לענ"ד אין צווייטן דור בייט עס זיך שוין. דאס זיינען געוואקסן חבירים צוזאמען אין ישיבה קען מען שוין רעדן א שידוך מיטן שוועסטער.<br />מענדלמענדלnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-29080550026351400972010-05-28T03:17:05.710-04:002010-05-28T03:17:05.710-04:00Russian Chusid,
You are talking out of your rear e...Russian Chusid,<br />You are talking out of your rear end, zay moichel.<br />Your "facts" have been taken from the National Enquirer or from Tzigs favorite "newspaper" Punem Chadushesdudynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-22041138012198507922010-05-27T16:40:04.509-04:002010-05-27T16:40:04.509-04:00Shneur,
This is the main reason the Besht came al...Shneur,<br /><br />This is the main reason the Besht came along.And today we need a new Besht , because this bluff will collapse one day soon too.<br /><br />IT IS ALREADY COLAPSING- EVREY THIRD GIRL IN LAKEWOOD WILL NEVER GET MARRIED (EITHER NO MONEY OR NOT (ANCHULDIK BITTE)A MODEL). ACCORDING TO WHAT I KNOW IT IS A CLEAR STATISTIC.russian chusidnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-62767654699430706192010-05-27T14:58:45.937-04:002010-05-27T14:58:45.937-04:00bildung Romance
please state plainly what you mea...bildung Romance<br /><br />please state plainly what you mean. <br /><br /><br />I think it has something to do with love stories committed to film. ;-)CRnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-48730347101382624272010-05-27T14:25:55.467-04:002010-05-27T14:25:55.467-04:00for a lighter touch check out this humorous and fi...for a lighter touch check out this humorous and finely written /designed blog:<br /><br />http://badforshidduchim.wordpress.com/<br /><br /><i>halevai oif mir gizugt</i>The Bray of Fundiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08552912825252813495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-89370604074877138562010-05-27T13:41:02.371-04:002010-05-27T13:41:02.371-04:00Wow....painful to read.Wow....painful to read.ConsumerVigilantehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12079009420595865193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-21210897759370868282010-05-27T12:59:57.019-04:002010-05-27T12:59:57.019-04:00bildung Romance
please state plainly what you me...<i>bildung Romance </i><br /><br />please state plainly what you mean. I;m not lazy. I googled and wikied and can't grasp if it means shape-shifting or something to do with Biedermeir or education in general.<br /><br />Please enlighten.The Bray of Fundiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08552912825252813495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-61290397891692364092010-05-27T12:47:20.657-04:002010-05-27T12:47:20.657-04:00We had the new Besht but rejected him.
His name w...We had the new Besht but rejected him.<br /><br />His name was Shlomo Carlebach z"l.A Prince in the Kingdom of Songhttp://google.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-15425089972388720822010-05-27T12:41:52.330-04:002010-05-27T12:41:52.330-04:00Why would anyone want to be a memebr of a society ...Why would anyone want to be a memebr of a society with values like these ?<br />In Europe many of these values reigned supreme and the youth by and large left this scoiety and joined modernity where a sense of equality, fair play, bildung Romance and bechiras libo, .And 100-200 years later we wonder why Orthodoxy in Europe fell part shtickerveiss. What chances did the shoemakers son or daughter have in such a community ?<br />What is described here is a rigid class based egocentric society , based on materialism with little real compassion for the poor, and those who are not well connected. Why the need fro all the color pictures of gedolim and the new style of the same pictures ar private simches of weell connected gvirim !<br />As a friend of mine observed the Torah and Rabbinic Judiasm are true , but those who practice this Torah Judaism and their society are hard to take unless you are in the "IN CROWD".<br />This is the main reason the Besht came along.And today we need a new Besht , because this bluff will collapse one day soon too.schneurnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-46673388275858948642010-05-27T12:36:09.961-04:002010-05-27T12:36:09.961-04:00I find it ironic that there is such an effort to m...<i>I find it ironic that there is such an effort to make ba'al tshuva's but no corresponding one to help us find mates. </i><br /><br />I hear the taynaeh but find the indictment somewhat unfair. the talents and material needed to be mekarev someone and those needed to be a matchmaker are not identical. If you believe the old joke about krumeh kep they may even be antithetical.<br /><br />Would you indict Roshei Yeshiva who may be talented at giving bokhrim a derekh in l;earning or in getting them "turned on" to learn with geshmack and hasmada for not redting successful shiddduchim?<br /><br />There has to be division of labor.The Bray of Fundiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08552912825252813495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-49030776678274537472010-05-27T12:32:12.551-04:002010-05-27T12:32:12.551-04:00Nu Tzig...were you mevarer the spelling mistake?Nu Tzig...were you mevarer the spelling mistake?The Bray of Fundiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08552912825252813495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-46278674350457635782010-05-27T00:49:32.516-04:002010-05-27T00:49:32.516-04:00Most people that call Malkeil, "Malkeil"...Most people that call Malkeil, "Malkeil" are takheh bnei alyiah, in comparison to others.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-12358186547068915372010-05-27T00:24:44.463-04:002010-05-27T00:24:44.463-04:00I am not so sure this can't go into a frum pub...I am not so sure this can't go into a frum publication. Except for the Malkiel reference, I would say its a moving article, and would have a good chance to published. Of course with minor צופוצען. <br /><br />Yosef 718Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-37730413960162064262010-05-26T20:24:35.410-04:002010-05-26T20:24:35.410-04:00I was feeling so sorry for you, really trying to u...I was feeling so sorry for you, really trying to understand your pain, where youre coming from.<br /><br />But then you go ahead and call RMK "Malkiel" - and for what purpose? Why the need to push him down? And in a public forum? Was there a need for it?<br /><br />I dont want to get mean, because I do sense that you are speaking out of pain, but before you put down other peopls frumkeit, and make fun of a system that is not perfect, perhaps take a look in the mirror, and see if an emmes'dik ben aliyah would call RMK "Malkiel"<br /><br />Just something to think about.<br /><br />Good luck !!!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-39969173180941253202010-05-26T17:42:39.539-04:002010-05-26T17:42:39.539-04:00I find it ironic that there is such an effort to m...I find it ironic that there is such an effort to make ba'al tshuva's but no corresponding one to help us find mates. They sell us on the beautiful Orthodox family, and then expect us to live like monks and nuns. No wonder thare is such a bitter ba'al tshuva drop out movement on the internet.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-18755983235170928352010-05-26T15:05:18.992-04:002010-05-26T15:05:18.992-04:00I think Lubavitch is much better indeed in this re...I think Lubavitch is much better indeed in this respect, especially for the Russians. They are an elite of sorts, at least geographically if not in yichus, and shun the "aboriginals".nskernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-33998406579209041532010-05-26T14:08:54.708-04:002010-05-26T14:08:54.708-04:00You're right about those that come on their ow...You're right about those that come on their own, however. But they still should have some sort of achrayus.<br /><br />Not achrays, but emine and betuchon.:)<br />To all my friends eventually that helps.russian chusidnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-62330070306420793872010-05-26T12:58:00.889-04:002010-05-26T12:58:00.889-04:00no, genius
I'm saying find him a shiddukh!no, genius<br />I'm saying find him a <em>shiddukh!</em>Hirshel Tzig - הירשל ציגhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08911009966581004937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-86955484115546195802010-05-26T12:52:13.647-04:002010-05-26T12:52:13.647-04:00If you don't have many BTs, and cannot provide...<i>If you don't have many BTs, and cannot provide for them when it comes to shidduchim, then get out of the kiruv business!</i><br /><br />I don't get this. You're saying if a mekurev/mekureves ends up an old bokhur or spinster but otherwise completely shomrie Torah Umitzvos that they are worse off than having stayed frie, spent a lifetime being mekhalel Shabbos, eating treif and being boalei niddos/ shekotsim/shiktsez?<br /><br />Please explain/ elaborate.The Bray of Fundiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08552912825252813495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-24796869620425596982010-05-26T12:45:00.738-04:002010-05-26T12:45:00.738-04:00You'd be quite surprised. Even such names, yes...You'd be quite surprised. Even such names, yes.<br /><br />You're right about those that come on their own, however. But they still should have some sort of <em>achrayus.</em>Hirshel Tzig - הירשל ציגhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08911009966581004937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13084425.post-41355395440843717742010-05-26T12:39:08.764-04:002010-05-26T12:39:08.764-04:001) Lubavitch IS much better, with many FFB familie...1) Lubavitch IS much better, with many FFB families marrying BT kids.<br /><br />WHO-REICHKES???PLOTKINS??MUSHELOVINS??? OVADE:):):)<br /><br />2)CORRECT- BUT WHAT A PERSON, WHO CAME ON HIS OWN TO IDESHKEIT -ZOL PLOTSEN? I GUESS...russian chusidnoreply@blogger.com