I guess they can never win.
Here's a story of a "heartless" Rabbi who wouldn't allow the poor boy to have his Bar Mitzvah Aliyah in the shul.
The boy needed another Bris before he'd be allowed to have his Bar Mitzvah there
The Rebbe wanted no לימודי חול in Yeshivos, now that's being put to the test.
Quebec committee to look into chassidic schools